6 Ways to Build Your Self Confidence

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Here is a piece of training I shared with a student this week.

I hope you find it helpful.

6 Ways to Build Your Self Confidence

Not even the most significant leaders can escape periods where they lack self-confidence. Your self-confidence is a mindset that, when the going gets rough, takes some effort to maintain. It is something that must be learned, practiced, and mastered, just like all your other skills. When you can master it, your life will change for the better. Here are six ways you can build your self-confidence.

Act the Part

The one thing that can instantly demonstrate self-assuredness, or scream insecurity, is your body language. You always want to present yourself in ways that say that you are ready to master any situation. Looking confident and acting the part will allow you to feel more in control, and people will be much more confident with you as well.

Dress the Part

When you look better, you tend to feel better. Choosing clothing that fits well and suits your industry and lifestyle, and makes you feel good will automatically increase your self-esteem. You have to look like the part you want to play.

Speak Assertively

Great speakers speak confidently, in a steady and rhythmic tone, rather than the flow being interrupted by the “umms” and “ahhs.” To build your confidence, adopt an assertive way of speaking that indicates your self-confidence. Avoid high-pitched, nervous chatter and giggles in your speech.

Think and Act Positively

Positive energy will always lead to positive outcomes, so create a mindset that sets your mind to the can-do side of situations. Also, avoid negative self-talk that can make you feel less confident. Always look for ways to smile, laugh, and surround yourself with positive people.

Take Action

There is more to being confident than merely dressing and acting the part. You have to take action. Inaction will breed doubt and fear while taking action will generate confidence and courage. When you practice being self-confident, you will soon find that it has become second nature.

Be Prepared

The more prepared you are for any given situation, the more confident you will feel about your competency and expertise. Being prepared will help you to avoid getting tripped up by life’s unexpected challenges. Learn everything you can about your industry, your goals, and what drives you to success.

These six tips will help you boost your self-confidence. With some patience and perseverance, you are just steps away from becoming a more confident you.

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Published by cafeboss2503

I am a Retail manager with over 30 years of experience and stories. I started as a shift manager and worked my way up to Regional Management positions. I also enjoy a good cup of Coffee.

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